Lately, a friend of mine broke up with his girlfriend. When I asked him about the same, he said that something went terribly wrong and now he wants to get back with his ex-girlfriend but has no idea how to do that. Should he just go to her place or wherever she goes and plead her until she accepts him? What did he do wrong and why she left him? Unfortunately, there weren’t many answers to his questions.
After a little good research & analysis and trial and error, I learned a reliable strategy that can assist anyone to find how to get back with the ex-girlfriend/boyfriend. Regardless of your gender, I am sure that this strategy will make sure that you will get back with your ex-girlfriend or boyfriend. Wondering how can I be so sure of this?
As I said, my friend was completely hopeless. He worked rigorously to win her back and he was successful. This strategy is completely fail-proof. Now, are you ready to start working towards winning your ex back? Well, below, you will know about a great strategy which can be reproduced regardless of the events.
Put an end to all the wrong things.
If you are trying to win your ex-girlfriend back or at least trying to convince her, then you really have to stop doing that. Because by doing so, you are only making a fool out of yourself. My friend did that too. Pleading all day and ending up the same place wherever she goes, etc. But that will not work. Trust me. In fact, by doing all that nonsense, you are pushing your ex-girlfriend or boyfriend further away from you and your relationship. If you keep on begging then your ex-girlfriend will only think of you as a weak person and nothing more than that.
If you are really interested in getting together with your ex-girlfriend or boyfriend then you have to do exactly the opposite of the above thing. It is very very very important to maintain your backbone and just stand straight. Never ever beg someone to be in the relationship or to accept you. Because doing so will only degrade you are standard and self-confidence. Instead, you need to keep your head high and follow the information below to win your ex back.
Step 1 — Who made the decision
The very first thing you need to find and understand is that whose Idea was that to break up in the first place. Was it yours or your ex’s decision? If it is surely your decision to break up with your ex and now you realize that the decision you made is completely wrong and nothing but a terrible mistake then getting your ex-girlfriend back shouldn’t be that hard. But if the cases another way around, if your ex-girlfriend wanted to end things with you then it is going to take a bit more hard work.
I’m not saying it is impossible to get her back if it is her decision but things can be a little bit overwhelming. However, you need to keep your head high and just follow what I am saying. It is going to take a little bit of hard work and patience, you surely will get your ex back.
What went wrong?
It is crucial to start exploring your relationship. What went wrong? Many times, your ex-girlfriend may give you some stupid reasons or excuses such as that you two had grown apart and now all she wants is to be alone for some time. But there will always be an underlying factor which made her say this. And for that reason, you need to find and determine the exact reason for a decision.
Figure out why you want to get back with your ex-girlfriend?
Now that you want to get back with her the very first question you should be asking yourself is that “ Why do I want to get back with my ex-girlfriend?” Before you start convincing your ex that it was a stupid decision for you to make, you need to understand why you want to get back with her. If it was your decision then you certainly must have thought about it and ended things with her back then. First, figure out the reasons behind your decision and start analyzing whether you can accept her with her flaws in the future.
Step 2 — Find out why she wanted to end things with you
Again before finding ways to get back with your ex-girlfriend, you should take this time to find out why she wanted to end things or broke up with you in the first place. In most of the cases, the underlying reason is that the girl is just lost interest in the boyfriend. No offense, but this is fact. So if that is the problem with you too then you need to make that girl interested in you again. Lying around will not take you your relationship anywhere. Once you figure that out you can surely entice her once again. However, you make sure you do this before it’s too late.
Step 3 — Time to miss you
Running back to your ex just after you got separated will not make her come back to you. In any case, your ex-girlfriend broke up with you then the interest level is certainly at a low. No matter what you do it will only make her feel irritated lessens the whatever the interest or attraction is left for you. So stop doing that. It will only make you look desperate and it makes this situation from bad to worse.
You need to give her some space. If you do so there are chances for your ex to realize what they are missing in their life. And this is the only way to create your interest level backup in your ex.
Step 4 — No contact
Even though my friend had his heart broken about her exam the relationship he had to learn that ignoring his ex was important. Will this strategy or method not only makes her understand that you don’t need her in your life but also give you a chance to make you feel better about yourself. Do not misunderstand me or what I am trying to say. My friend too was very desperate to reach out to her ex but he controlled it and in the end, it did pay off. It’s only there breaking all sorts of communication ways will assist you in getting back with your ex-girlfriend.